I’ve always said women will find themselves in one of these three schools: Love, Money, or Health. If you’ve been following me for some time, you know my school of genius is money. Yet, I know so many women who find themselves stuck in the school of love. 

Before calling in my King, I too was stuck in love, attracting all the local loser rockstars of Detroit. I see so many brilliant, beautiful women struggling with similar patterns- toxic dating cycles, settling for comfort, or feeling they need to choose between love or career (yet, we know Queens can have both!) 

I’m so delighted to have Dr. Marcy Cole on the show today to share her expertise around changing thought patterns, embracing authenticity, and developing the courage to let go and find love again.

Dr. Marcy Cole is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Life Enrichment Producer, Writer, Speaker, Community Mobilizer & Humanitarian Visionary. She has been practicing Psychotherapy for over 25 years!

Her articles have been published by Goop, The Huffington Post, and Thrive Global. In addition, she’s been featured on TV shows such as Millionaire Matchmaker, and networks like Bravo and WE.

In 2004, Marcy began producing monthly Life Enrichment events for women, through the platform First Tuesday USA where conversations revolve around professional/ personal development and social issues.

You’ll want to press play and soak in all the expertise Dr. Marcy has accumulated over the years to find your royal romance! 


  • Dr. Marcy Cole’s introduction and background (:57)
  • Lessons learned through early relationships (5:52)
  • The courage of letting go & finding love again (9:13)
  • Coming back to love & attracting a ‘fairytale’ romance (20:46)
  • How to be in your full truth and authenticity when dating (27:30)
  • Love versus career, can you have both? (33:50)




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